Ep 44. Inside a Teen Rites of Passage Trip: 6 Truths About Who Teenagers Really Are

In today’s episode I’m taking you behind the scenes of our first wilderness rite of passage trip of the summer, a five day backpacking journey into the backcountry with a group of ten middle schoolers. I just got back last week and I’m still processing everything that happened out there, but I couldn’t wait to come on and share it with you while it’s all still fresh.

Here’s what we cover:

  • The full story of our time on the trail, including the challenges, the breakthroughs, and the moments that left the guides in tears
  • How asking for help became the unexpected theme of the entire trip
  • What happened during solo time and the powerful ritual that followed
  • The appreciation circle that cracked every single heart wide open
  • The welcome home ceremony with parents that brought it all full circle

Plus, I break down six myths about teenagers that got completely shattered out there:

  • That teens can’t or won’t go deep
  • That they need constant stimulation and can’t handle stillness
  • That their social lives are all about image and performance
  • That they’re too proud or self-conscious to ask for help
  • That they’re entitled or checked out
  • That they resist ritual and being witnessed by the adults in their lives

This episode is for any parent who has ever wondered what their teenager is really capable of when they’re given the right container.

Register by Friday the 3rd for the last spot in our High School Girls Rite of Passage Trip into the Marble Mountains (We hit the trail on July 8th!): https://youth.guided-passages.com/high-school-girls-wilderness-quest

Connect with me on Instagram: @jasmyne.guidedpassages

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Kerrick Gooden

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Kerrick was raised in the Hill Country of Austin, Texas where he studied at the University of Texas. After some travel, he moved to the Rogue Valley of Oregon with a vision to farm and support youth. He completed his Bachelor’s of Science in Applied Cultural Anthropology with Honors in 2004 at Southern Oregon University, and devoted over a decade supporting youth and their families navigate  local and state social service programs. During this time, he and his partner cultivated a food forest at their home and founded Verdant Phoenix as an educational mini-farm in 2016.

Verdant Phoenix Farm became an expression of a way of life for Kerrick. He is interested in the relationships between humans, soil, microbes, plants/trees/shrubs, food, culture, time, and the web of life. As these elements inform his horticultural practice, Kerrick enjoys supporting landscapes, gardens, farms, and their people who are interested in belonging to the land.